Thursday, March 23, 2017

Hot Showers are a Luxery!

Today I'm going to bring you another fine lil ditty from my draft folder circa 2015.  I wrote this after running one chilly fall morning.


It's cold outside.  Think 40-50ish degrees fairenhieght with a brisk breeze.  As I stepped into the solace of the school building all I could think about was the warm shower that awaited me.  Nothing is better than a piping hot shower after a long cold run.

I quickly hopped into the shower and was rewarded with a blast of cold water.  Yikes I shouted with gusto.  I quickly retreated and let the shower continue to run while I began brushing my teeth.  After a solid 5 minutes the reality set in....this was going to be one cold morning shower.

Now, I could go into detail about cold shower taking methods here, but I'll spare you the bore.  Let's just say it involves a lot of jumping and screaming.

While gulping down my hot coffee I had time to reflect on that mornings unfortunate events.  I realized that even though it was cold, I still was able to get clean quickly that morning.  I didn't have to pump the water myself or locate a suitable creek.

I was able to summon gallons of water at the flip of a switch and not just any water, but clean water.  

I began to realize that the water being warm by the time it reached me was only a luxury.  It wasn't a need or a right.

Many things we experience in everyday life are actually luxuries.

  • Our cars that carry us from point A to point B.
  • Our clothes and shoes that cover and protect our bodies.
  • The stores we visit that sell us all the goods we need to sustain our lives.

Often times in this amazing land of abundance we forget what true need is.  True need is water, food, shelter, clothing.

Some people in this world don't have clean water or a decent shelter.  Some people have to walk for miles barefoot just to get medical aid.

I'm so quick to complain if something doesn't go my way, but what am I really complaining about?

A minor inconvenience because some luxury has been denied me for a small amount of time.

A good example that a lot of you can relate to is when my car broke down this past Wednesday.  I got it into the shop the same day but would not get it back until Friday.  This left me without a vehicle for one measly day.  The way my mood soured you would have thought I had contracted a terminal illness.

My wife offered to drive me for Petes sake, but the feeling of giving up my own "independence" initially angered me.

So I had to step back.  I had to look at the situation from the bigger picture.

  • First it wasn't that big of a deal.  The repair was minor and we had the $ to cover the cost.
  • Second, I still had transportation to my job and I didn't have to run to work.
  • Thirdly (third, thirdy?) I was able to spend more time with my wife.  Time I usually spend mindlessly listening to the radio.

Wrap Up:

In the trenches of everyday life it becomes easy to get used to "the norm."  As a human I become quite comfortable and set in my routines.  I don't like it when anything disrupts my plan because I like to take the easiest path possible...but it isn't always the best path.  One day when I'm nearing the end (if I get the chance to reflect) will I remember the warm shower I took after a cold day's run?

Or will I remember the time I took cold showers for a week because the boiler broke and I danced around like a naked ninny just to get clean?  

I think you know the answer;)

OSC out. 

Wednesday, March 8, 2017

Goals for the Year 2017

Most people have already made and given up their New Years resolutions by this point...whereas I'm just starting.  Procrastination for the win I suppose.


1. Make an additional 10k of unplanned income: This goal is pretty lofty for our family but with my wife's bonus and my random side hustles I'm aiming to make an extra 10k this year.

2.  Pay our mortgage down below $100,000:  This goal is incredibly unlikely to happen as we sit currently at $148k, but that's no reason we shouldn't try extremely hard to eliminate our arch nemesis!

3.  End the year with 15k in the bank:  Lately we've been waffling between 5 and 15k for our emergency fund.  This is mostly due to us cash flowing my schooling.  Although I won't be done I'm hoping we can find the discipline this year to build up extra cash reserves and keep them:)

4.  Shore up my retirement/estate planning:  This probably means I need to get a will set up and more life insurance...oh and speaking of insurance I should probably check all that out as well.  You know, an annual checkup sort of thing to make sure all areas are covered sufficiently.  I also need to reexamine my retirement plan and look at all the accounts and numbers.  I need to also explain it all to my wife so that if I die I could rest easy knowing she has a good grasp on how it all works.


1.  Run a marathon:  This item has been on my list for a very long time and unfortunately I can no longer delay the inevitable.  Mostly because my wife signed me up as a birthday present.  What kind of sicko signs their husband up for a marathon as a birthday present?  Especially their 30th birthday.  Doesn't she realize my best days are behind me?  Or perhaps that is why she signed me up in the first place.  She's attempting to collect that sweet sweet insurance money once I croak from training.

2. Seek God First, and my wife second:  As a Christian I need to recede ate myself to the Lord.  Ever since my mid twenties I've been floundering in my faith like a fish out of water.  This year is the year that I change that.  No other goal is as important as this one.  Also this year I look to rekindle my marriage.  My wife has been telling me it's a bit stale lately and I tend to agree.  As the leader it is my duty to get my but in gear and show her I still love her (which I do of course).

3.  Complete my Masters classes with all A's:  so far all I've gotten are A's, but right now I'm taking 3 classes and work is really wearing thin on me.  I'm going to try my best to maintain a 4.0 but I'm not promising anything.

4.  Complete more than 28 blog posts this year:  The first year of this blog, 2014, I published 28 posts.  The content was poorly written and often had grammatical errors.  The next year I wrote 20 and in 2016 I penned 1 measly post.  Even though I didn't continue with my other blogs after OSC I did become a much better writer.  It is my goal to take that skill and create better content and more content...more better content if you will.


So that wraps up my goals for the year.  I hope your goals are being met as we speak and please berate me when I fail to meet mine.  A sharp stick will keep me on the straight and narrow.

OSC out!

What is up with all the Whining?

10/2/15.  That is how long ago I began this post.  Admittedly I only got as far as the title.  BUT that is how long I have been thinking about the issue of whining in America.

*And no this post isn't whining about whining, so shove it haters.  It's a rant, and if you think its whining you are probably someone who needs to read and take heart of what I am about to say...

Today more than ever we have an epidemic in America.  The whiner.  The whiner has infected our schools and brought about the downfall of public education.


Well let me tell you.

The whiner is an expert at getting something that he/she does not deserve.  Here is a typical day in the life of a whiny butt student, Winnie.

Winnie the whiner wakes up when he/she feels like.  Winnie slowly drags him/herself to school and enters 1/2 hour late.  Not a problem, Winnie thinks, I'll just go grab my free breakfast and then head to class. 

Winnie enters the lunch room and finds it half full because all the other whiners have woken up late too.  She sits down and munches on her free pop tarts while casually tossing the wrapper over her shoulder.  Then she takes the juice box with her to class.  It doesn't make it to class though because its too cold in poor little Winnie's hand.  So instead of tossing it in the nearest trash receptacle (no more than 30 yards away) she throws it on the ground.

Winnie strolls into 1st hour just as the bell is ringing for 2nd hour.  Winnie walks up to her teacher and demands her homework.  Browbeaten by the policies, administration, and general disrespect the teacher simply hands Winnie the work and tells her to turn it in as soon as possible.  Winnie will turn it in eventually, but when she is good and ready.  Thanks to a new policy she can turn it whenever you wants for full credit.

Winnie proceeds to skip 2nd - 4th hour and then eat her free lunch, or at least part of it.  The peaches she doesn't like so she throws them at one her classmates.  The deans are far too busy to deal with such a "minor" offense so they look the other way.

After lunch Winnie complains to her P.E. teacher that her outfit was left at home and that she is cramping, and that she fell down the stairs after lunch get the picture.  The P.E. teacher tells Winnie he doesn't care and that she will be receiving a zero for the day.

Winnie goes and sits down, but uses her cell phone illegally during P.E. to text mom (who just woke up) and complains of the injustice that this teacher dealt her!

The P.E. teacher checks his email and sees a note from the mom that sounds quite angry.  Why would you do this to my kid!!!???  She left her clothes here, and isn't feeling good, and fell down the stairs!!!???  Expletive, cuss word, etc...

The administration review the email and force a reversal of the grade.

Winnie continues her day poisoning what classes she goes to with disrespect and disregard of the teachers and other students.  No learning environment is safe with Winnie in it and sadly she isn't alone.  Many other students begin to see that Winnies way is easier.  So they join her.  And soon we are left with a whole society of Winnies.

So whatever you do, wherever you end up, no matter how bad you have it,

DON'T WHINE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
Don't be a Winnie.  Don't give up your power to some half butt cockamamie excuse.  Don't give in.  Don't take the easy way out.  And do not for one second think your actions don't affect others.  Winnies actions have far reaching economical realities.

When she takes that free breakfast and lunch she didn't earn and doesn't actually need because her mom is too lazy to work then she causes a burden on the rest of society. 

When she throws that juice down she causes extra work for the student with the disability who cleans up the lunch room.

When she uses her free cell phone she causes all the other cell phone bills to go up (universal access fee my a$$).

When she treats her teachers poorly she encourages others to do so in her class and she disrupts the learning that would be taking place.

So don't whine and don't let other people in your life whine.  Hold them accountable.  If you see someone taking advantage of the system you get about the business of getting up in their face and telling them off. 

We have a problem America!  Let's get our $hit together and throw it out.

I'm Baaaaaack!!!!

That's right long time loyal readers who have been holding out hope that I did not is I! 

Old School.  I would apologize for leaving in such a haste with nary a goodbye but that isn't like me at all.


Old School does not apologize, but he will explain (am I typing in the third person?)  I've really got to stop doing that.

What I went away to do...

  1. Start another money blog
  2. Start a fitness blog
  3. Start a reselling blog
  4. Stop blogging
  5. Started reselling
So, yeah.  You could say I have varied interests.

The point is that even with all those other started (and failed) ventures, I still longed for this blog.  A blog where I could let down my hair and tell the world how it really is.  A place where face punching (MMM) is acceptable.  A place where I don't have to be my buttoned up professional self, if such a person even exists.

It's been a over a year since I've written but here I am, back at the keyboard, crackin some knuckles and takin names.  So get ready America cause you are in need of a good butt whoopin!